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Change is inevitable. The only thing certain about change is that it will happen, whether you like it or not. I’ve always struggled with change. I’m truly not a very spontaneous person. I like the familiar, tried and true, comfortable things. But is being “comfortable” actually living? And what kind of change are we talking about? Change for the sake of change, or for the betterment of some situation in life?
I’ve experienced a great deal of change within the last five years. While I feel like I’ve been accommodating (I won’t go so far as to use the word ‘flexible’), is more necessary? Is it demanded? And if so, by whom and to what end? These are the questions I find myself asking these days as I look at life–what I’ve accomplished and what still lies ahead, if only I can make the change. I know this is quite the enigmatic post, but suffice it to say that lately, I haven’t had much time to write. What free time I find, I’ve committed to promotion, and I continue to do so. It’s quite fun.
But what if these changes I’m eyeing can eventually free up some time? While I understand that work expands to fill the time alloted, I ultimately want writing to be the work that expands, not be shoved to the back of the fridge to grow stale, moldy, or forgotten. Things could go either way–I can’t currently see which way the road bends. So there are a lot of questions I need to ask about a handful of situations in my life. I need to get my thoughts and emotions out of my inner being and into the universe, where they can be manifested one way or the other.
So I ask you, how do you deal with change, with major choices in your life? What methods have you found effective for taking the steps necessary for risk management? I know nobody has all the answers, and that stepping out on faith is something in which we are not all created equally. But if change will certainly come…what’s the best way to deal?



